The Let-Down?

*I am not depressening. -.- No such word. Haha... I just...decided to touch on this. And it's my p-o-v(point-of-view). I'm sure everyone has their own, and forwardly would like to say that i respect everyone's respective opinion on this.

You remember that feeling when you were let down for the first time? Whether it was during an exam, when your parents didn't want to buy you THAT toy when you were younger, or even by a friend? People will tell you after that very first time, you're bound to be immune by future let-downs and whatnot, and you'll be able to bounce back way easier everytime it happens.

So is it the fact that one knows that no one can be trusted and so he/she doesn't put in as much effort into a certain thing so that when the eventual let-down happens, it won't feel that bad? End-result: He/She doesn't let that person even have a chance to build the foundations of a let-down?

Or is it the fact that he/she doesn't mind what the long term effect is, just as long as he/she can fully experience the short-term pleasure(not that pleasure), because in the end, even if one gets let-down, they've already been brainwashed by what people say about how what doesn't kill you(the let-down) only makes you stronger? End result: One goes on with whatever it is that could turn out to be an eventual let-down, with ony one hope that this would help them in life's adversaries in the future.

So what would one do when the let-down happens? And what should one be doing? Should the indidividual shun away from the slightest evidence of a potential let-down, avoiding any feelings of her own to be hurt, or should he/she take the risk and probably make the best decision ever going against what might lead to the worst repercussion ever?

One thing's for sure. In the end of both choices, if the choice the individual makes succeeds, the utitlity gained might be close to endless. But if it fails, then, I guess the only way to get better, is to get worse. After all , I never said that someone would be totally immune to let-downs. No such thing, unless you're totally emotionally numbed out or over-positive. Personally, I have yet to encounter such people. So, I don't believe it's possible.

Just remember, when in a depression state or whatever you, my dear faithful readers are going through, youc an pray as much as you want for things to rectify itself. You have the choice of waiting for a miracle to happen, which I sincerely believe do happen once in a while,

or you can come out and realize you were never given a solution.

But an opportunity to find that missing puzzle piece.

Sometimes you just don't have to look with your eyes, ya know? :)

What would you do?

I've used "he/she" so many times that it sounds as if , if there was a person i was referring to, it's a transvestite